I get where you’re coming from—and maybe that’s why your marriage looks perfect
and has lasted forever. Honestly though, this feels more like your personal truth, not some universal rule.
Or maybe it’s a subtle dig at someone in particular?
Look, no one’s saying marriage is a nonstop
rom-com. It takes two grown adults. People change. Life gets chaotic.
Responsibilities stack up. And no, it’s not all candlelit dinners and whispered
sweet nothings—it’s mostly blind trust, compromise, and a whole lot of
unglamorous effort.
But reading what you wrote comes off pretty
one-sided. Heavy on the “give,” light on the “take.” Not everyone’s born
knowing how to comfort someone, communicate like a therapist, or clean up
someone else’s emotional mess—let alone their metaphorical ass.
Love itself is not the hard part. That’s
supposed to be the easy, unconditional part. What’s hard is the grind—the
imbalance, the daily tug-of-war. It’s not love that’s complicated. It’s
everything else.
But hey, maybe the rest of us just aren’t
trying hard enough. If we could just ignore our needs, never get tired, never
grow or change, and somehow be perfect partners 24/7… maybe we’d reach
relationship nirvana too.
Because clearly, love is simple, Just give
endlessly, expect nothing, and if it ever starts to feel one-sided… well,
that’s probably just our own fault for not trying harder.
….and maybe I know nothing, I’m just a sarcastic asshole Ive bee single a long time, you can read about it on my FB feed I linked my blogger.
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